How Dreams Become Reality

Dreams do come true if you stay awake. Ironically, that is my motto in life. If we are going to be stuck and do nothing, we will achieve nothing. But if we are going to strive hard and give our best shot, dreams will become a reality.

I have a lot of dreams in life which started during my high school days. One of them is to become a writer. I am fond of writing songs and poems during my leisure time. Although it was not released in the media, I was so glad whenever I see my friends and boyfriend happy when I start to narrate my poems and sing my songs to them. That was fulfilling on my part. I also like photography. I want to capture one-time moments of my love ones’ lives and the mesmerizing sceneries of nature. I am a nature-lover. I love taking pictures of beautiful sunset, starry sky and deep blue sea. When I’m down and stressed out, I just look with those pictures and my problems are all gone. And then I realized that life is indeed beautiful.

Adventure In My First Job

Nine months. Long enough to change something. But the company I worked in is stuck somewhere. I started working here on June 4, 2012 as an HR/Admin Staff. As a novice worker, I thought that the company is fantabulous like what I’ve dreamed of. But then again, I realized that it isn’t. Although difficulties may not be avoided, this company’s problem was terrific. There are no uniform and standard policies, no coordination with inter-departments, government contributions were not remitted, and leaders are closed-minded.

Being an HR Personnel, I tried to work on policies and procedures to establish standardization. But like what I said, leaders don’t listen. Suggestions which won’t benefit the employer are disregarded. I felt like I have been a robot, just doing what they want me to do. I can’t maximize my talents and abilities for they impedes it. That’s why I decided to finish it up. It has been very tough for me because some of my co-employees have been my friends since my first day at work. But it has to end so that another adventure begins.

The Best Speakers For The Occasion

My sister wanted her wedding to be perfect. The perfect dress, the perfect theme, the perfect location, the perfect photographers and everything else perfect as well. Needless to say the first years of her engagement was filled with different emotional episodes that cultivated in a near divorce before the marriage even began. My sister had planned everything herself leaving the groom completely out of the picture and focusing only on what she wanted. Eventually the groom finally put his foot down and planned out the reception room as well as booked a good DJ to play music.

I also helped him find some good speakers that they could use for the wedding’s reception that would be small enough to fit in the room, but powerful enough to be heard by everyone. The Electro-Voice Speakers were amazingly clear and top quality allowing everyone within the church hall to hear the music.

My Friend’s Sense of Humor

I always wanted to play an instrument, especially one as cool as the guitar. As a young man I grew up listening to guitar players such as: Jimi Hendrix and Bob Dylan playing creating some of the most memorable pieces of music ever. For me the guitar was the most versatile and captivating instrument around that would allow a guitarist to create a symphony of great music. My ultimate dream was to become a rock star and become rich as well as famous. So I hinted to my parents and friends that I wanted a guitar for my birthday.

Fortunately I got one and I immediately began practicing with it. After a few weeks of practicing I found out that the school talent show was coming up in a few weeks and I wanted to perform. So I got myself prepared for the big day. It was the day of the big talent show and I could not find my guitar anywhere. Until one of my friends said he put it in my locker at school. So I waited until showtime to go get my guitar, but there was no guitar, instead there was a classic kazoo. My friends had pulled the ultimate prank on me causing me to have to perform with the kazoo instead of my guitar.

Never-Ending Thoughts Of Him

I never intended to be here. To be in this kind of situation again. But then, again, I’m madly crazily in love with a man. A man I barely know. How do I say that? We’ve just been together for almost 3 months and here we are, sleeping together in a cold, dark room. Why am I doing this? I didn’t know. Am I really in love? Or It was just mere infatuation? Or longing to be loved? For how many years I’ve been trying to be happy. But I don’t know if I am going to be happy with him or I will just live my life miserably than what I’m into. I don’t know if I will just go with the flow or just let him go. The question is, am I happy? Am I contented with him? Do I see myself to be his wife? To be the mother of his children? To be with him for the rest of my life?

For now, I can’t see myself as that kind of gal. But how about the possibility of being knocked up? We’ve been sleeping for sometimes and that possibility is big. And for now, I’m having a menstrual period if that’s what we called that or is it decidual bleeding which is a sign of pregnancy? I really don’t know. I’m in the midst of nowhere. My mind was full of different things. Chaotic mind. Deep thinking. But at this point of time, I can say that I’m happy but confused. Confused if we can really try to work it out or whatsoever. Or could it really be us? I love him. But the thoughts in mind make me suffer. I don’t know. But for now, I want to be with him. I want to make him happy. I want him to be the best man he can be. I love him now and that’s what matters.

Creating a Budget For Efficient Personal Finance Managing

In order to handle personal finances according to their possibilities people have to calculate their budget. This is the most effective way of managing costs and planning investments. Those who cannot keep track of their expenses are likely to end up in debts. Sooner or later, they’ll start to spend money that they don’t really own by borrowing it from credit card company or similar institutions.

Credit card companies are not our helpers but our lenders who will demand paying off the debts with interests. Interests are price for the money we borrowed so it turns up that we buy money for money. It sounds bad for those who cannot organize their finances. Creating a budget is a complicated task but not unreachable one. A bit of a research online can teach us how to handle finances and become happier persons in a heartbeat. The most important thing is to recognize the benefits that good budgeting allows.

To Forgive or Not To Forgive

The most important thing in marriage is trust. But trust has to be deserved, it doesn’t come as default. There are many bad individuals that don’t find trust important and often cheat on their partners without feeling remorse afterwards. I had been witnessing many such individuals in my life, some of them broke my heart as well. If I could turn back the time I would do some things differently. Not that I regret them a lot but I would save myself from being hurt so much.

From the point of married woman I can say I would never forgive infidelity. It would hurt me so much and I just know I couldn’t find strength to keep on going in the relationship. I find it the worst thing someone could do to a person. Some women have no trouble with it and allow their husbands to have affairs and often they have them too. If they are all right with that it’s fine by me but everybody knows how much they are ready to accept and I know it’s unacceptable to me.